[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/motto-rozmaznaneho-dietata-lebo-to-chcem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/motto-rozmaznaneho-dietata-lebo-to-chcem\/","headline":"Motto rozmaznan\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a? LEBO TO CHCEM!","name":"Motto rozmaznan\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a? LEBO TO CHCEM!","description":"Mnohokr\u00e1t sa hovor\u00ed, \u010dasy sa zmenili. To plat\u00ed aj pri v\u00fdchove det\u00ed. Ke\u010f sa pozrieme do minulosti, isto so mnou s\u00fahlas\u00edte, \u017ee sladkosti sme dost\u00e1vali v\u00fdnimo\u010dne (mo\u017eno tak raz za t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148, ak sme posl\u00fachali), \u017ee dar\u010deky sme dostali len ak sme mali svoj \u201esviatok\u201c alebo na Vianoce. Nov\u00fd bicykel? Na to sme mohli rovno zabudn\u00fa\u0165, […]","datePublished":"2018-06-27","dateModified":"2018-06-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f677d652d46d6437b40497bee38030612d53a3103b24904f519be33cae485306?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f677d652d46d6437b40497bee38030612d53a3103b24904f519be33cae485306?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"jotoma.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289115_w16572_t1530193443.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289115_w16572_t1530193443.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/motto-rozmaznaneho-dietata-lebo-to-chcem\/","wordCount":444,"articleBody":" Mnohokr\u00e1t sa hovor\u00ed, \u010dasy sa zmenili. To plat\u00ed aj pri v\u00fdchove det\u00ed. Ke\u010f sa pozrieme do minulosti, isto so mnou s\u00fahlas\u00edte, \u017ee sladkosti sme dost\u00e1vali v\u00fdnimo\u010dne (mo\u017eno tak raz za t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148, ak sme posl\u00fachali), \u017ee dar\u010deky sme dostali len ak sme mali svoj \u201esviatok\u201c alebo na Vianoce. Nov\u00fd bicykel? Na to sme mohli rovno zabudn\u00fa\u0165, bicykel sme \u201ezdedili\u201c po star\u0161om s\u00farodencovi, ktor\u00fd samozrejme nebol nastavite\u013en\u00fd a tak sme nedo\u010diahli na ped\u00e1l, ale predsa sme sa nau\u010dili bicyklova\u0165. Dne\u0161n\u00e9 deti v\u0161ak toto nepoznaj\u00fa. Samozrejmos\u0165ou s\u00fa ka\u017edodenn\u00e9 sladkosti, len aby die\u0165a neplakalo, tzv. \u201enehyster\u010dilo.\u201c Dar\u010deky a hra\u010dky dost\u00e1vaj\u00fa zaka\u017ed\u00fdm, ke\u010f povie \u201eto chcem.\u201c Nevad\u00ed, \u017ee doma u\u017e m\u00e1 tak\u00e9 len v inej farbe alebo ve\u013ekosti a \u017ee ho nov\u00e1 hra\u010dka bude bavi\u0165 len p\u00e1r min\u00fat, ako \u201espr\u00e1vny rodi\u010d\u201c, ktor\u00fd miluje svoje die\u0165a, to k\u00fapime. A tu rob\u00edme ve\u013ek\u00fa chybu. Potom sa ne\u010dudujme, \u017ee die\u0165a je rozmaznan\u00e9. Pre\u010do by aj nemalo by\u0165? V\u0161ak si je vedom\u00e9, \u017ee tro\u0161ku zapla\u010de, nadurd\u00ed sa, hod\u00ed o zem a dosiahne to, \u010do chce. U\u017e d\u00e1vno s\u00fa za nami \u010dasy, ke\u010f po maminej vete \u201eLEBO SOM TO POVEDALA\u201c sme zostali ticho a viac sa nep\u00fdtali, dnes plat\u00ed slovo die\u0165a\u0165a \u201eLEBO TO CHCEM!\u201c. Zhodujem sa s autorom \u010dl\u00e1nku \u017ee dne\u0161n\u00e9 deti nepoznaj\u00fa slov\u00e1 dom\u00e1ce pr\u00e1ce, pom\u00f4c\u0165 mame pri varen\u00ed a pod. Av\u0161ak na vine nie s\u00fa deti, ale rodi\u010dia. Miesto toho, aby viedli svoje deti k zodpovednosti a k dodr\u017eiavaniu discipl\u00edny, sa ich rad\u0161ej \u201ezbavia\u201c a po\u0161l\u00fa do izby za po\u010d\u00edta\u010d, notebook, nov\u00fd telef\u00f3n. Predsa im v\u0161etko z toho k\u00fapili, tak nech sa s t\u00fdm hr\u00e1. Hoci aj cel\u00fd de\u0148. Ak sa v\u0161ak takto spr\u00e1vame k svojim de\u0165om, ne\u010dudujme sa, \u017ee to od nich dostaneme nasp\u00e4\u0165 v podobe ne\u00facty a neposlu\u0161nosti. \u010co by sa stalo, keby sme veci robili inak? Mo\u017eno nie \u00faplne tak, ako na\u0161i rodi\u010dia, ale u\u017e vonkoncom nie tak, ako to rob\u00edme my. \u010co keby sme sa s na\u0161imi de\u0165mi viac rozpr\u00e1vali, o tom, \u010do ich bav\u00ed, \u010do chc\u00fa robi\u0165, ke\u010f vyrast\u00fa alebo len tak. V\u017edy sa vyhov\u00e1rame na pr\u00e1cu, \u017ee nem\u00e1me \u010das na na\u0161e deti, ale jednu vec si treba uvedomi\u0165. \u010cas nezastav\u00edme. Deti vyrast\u00fa a potom je u\u017e neskoro napr\u00e1va\u0165 chyby z minulosti.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Motto rozmaznan\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a? LEBO TO CHCEM!","item":"https:\/\/www.jotoma.sk\/motto-rozmaznaneho-dietata-lebo-to-chcem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]